Some dogs or maybe that’s most dogs, will attempt to greet a human by jumping. If only our arms were connected to our knees, they wouldn’t have to jump to get a pet. It goes without saying we also contribute to this sometimes negative behavior by unintentionally rewarding the dog’s jumping by touching them in some way. Even if it’s just to push them off. Any affection in this case equals, “good dog!”
Some dogs will approach and attempt to jump until their hips no longer allow it! For (exuberant) dogs like this, don’t wait for their paws to be on you. As they approach, tell them, “no jumping.” When my hands are free, I move my forearm in a back and forth motion in front of me as I say, “no jumping.” When all four paws are on the floor (and only then) do I give affection or treat. I have had great success with ignoring the dog upon entering the home. COMPLETELY! No words, eye contact, or stopping as you enter. Walk in as if there isn’t a dog and move to an area away from the door without acknowledging the dog until they have calmed down.
I use the word, “off” in the event I’m not quick enough to step back or turn prior to the dog’s paws touching me. Off is also used for counter surfing, or being on anything they shouldn’t be even if it’s just for a time; as in, “off” the furniture.
The beauty of having a trainer work with you is they can also do a leash correction and work with the dog as it approaches you and others. They learn how to greet in a way that will get them the attention and affection they desire without leaving their imprint on someone’s blouse!
I also want to add that if the only exercise or energy focus your dog gets is when you walk in the door, jumping should be expected. Even having a favorite toy for them to run and fetch when you walk in can help use their excitement more appropriately.
I hope these tips help. Please contact me if you have any questions regarding your jumping dog.
I have clients ask if it is confusing to their dog to be told to wait some times and other times the command is to stay. There is a difference in the two and any dog can and will learn the difference. The stay command (request) is associated with a position; i.e., sit, down, or even standing. It means they do not move from that position until you return to them and give them a clear release, such as a word like okay.
Wait is very similar to what it is for us two-leggers; i.e., give me a second. It’s not attached or associated to the dog’s position. They are free to move around in the area where they are told to wait. It’s also used for entering and exiting doors or at a curb prior to crossing the street.
The most important thing to remember is that when you are teaching these requests, you need to be consistent. Don’t release your dog from a stay at a distance. In time, that may be something you choose to do; however, initially, other than the dog’s position, your returning to them for their release will differentiate the two commands (or requests as I like to call them).
Let’s say you’ve asked your dog to wait at the door as you open it. The first few times, don’t push it too long. The purpose of having them wait is so you can open the door without them rushing out AND to allow you to go first. I have corrected a dog for starting to walk through the door as they have always done and the expression on their furrowed brow as they look at me is clearly an indicator they have no clue why they just got corrected for something that was normal the last time they went through that door!
So, when you are teaching it, remember that for both “stay” and “wait” they are learning! It is so very clear to us big brains what we are expecting. It’s not so clear to our dogs. For either request, only make them stay or wait for a second. Reward! They will quickly learn what is expected and will wait or stay until given the request for them to move.
If you are having challenges in teaching either command (request), I am happy to provide assistance!
Think of Halloween from your dog’s perspective. Here’s what they hear and see: A knock on the door or a ringing of the doorbell. You open the door anxiously as high-energy children (most you don’t know) are camouflaged as something potentially scary or threatening, as they yell, “trick or treat.” You hand them goodies. . .door closes until the next time.
This may be fun and games for your dog; however, if you have a dog new to your home or a dog that is easily frightened or skittish, here’s a great article giving some sound advice on why it’s ok to leave the lights off this year.
If you aren’t willing to do that, I would put them in a room (crated perhaps) with enough white noise or music to block the sounds of the at-the-door festivities!
In case you think that Mac-Nanny was being a little rough with Pepper, there was a purpose to their “play” and it was supervised. Pepper was being too rough with her older brother who wouldn’t defend himself. I knew Mac-Nanny could demonstrate a few moves that would make Pepper a little less certain of herself! (I miss you Mac. Thanks for always being such a great puppy nanny)
I have witnessed the aging process of many dogs. I personally had a Pitbull that was puppy for so many years that when asked how old she was, I would say, “five.” However, I had her since she was about two, and at least five years had passed. “Oh,” I corrected myself, “she’s seven or eight!” I believe that is because most of us want to deny our dogs are seniors even before they hit their early teens.
From the age of twelve to thirteen, it was evident there is truth to the concept that dogs age approximately seven years to our one. To me, it appeared she literally aged in a few months. Sure, denial played a part, but so did the fact that our dogs are proud creatures. They will rally and pull it together to please us at times when if they were human, they would be curled up in bed making certain we knew how bad they felt!
I have also learned that dog hours are very different than ours. Moby will assure me at 3:00 that it is at least 6:00 or 7:00 in dog-time. He comes to me asking for dinner, as I assure him, “it’s only 3:00 so you’ll have to wait, Bud.” Just to keep things interesting, some days, I will put the food down early. All it means to them is a full belly and nap time. When the real 6:00 rolls around and they look at me like I’m forgetting something, I remind them they already ate dinner according to human time.
It’s ok to honor dog-time. Some would encourage tough love – I say, “pick your battles.” If feeding a dog at 3:00 (actually 6:00, their time), is the most you give in to your dog, you’re doing great!