How to Change a Timid Dog

I have had the loving experience lately of working with shy dogs and their new human families. During the first visit, we talk about the history of the dog and any possible trigger for their timid behavior.

A lot of the time there may be clues but no real “a-has!” Genetically, some dogs and breeds are more timid than others. Granted, prior abuse and/or the lack of socialization are more obvious reasons.

Usually, the behavior shows up as the dog tries to bolt or it backs off when someone approaches. It will only make it worse if the person is doing their best to convince the dog that they are not the enemy. It’s important that you remain calm and confident and that will transfer to the dog. You don’t want to coddle or encourage the dog’s response.

It gets frustrating and disappointing to the family when the newly adopted dog refuses to approach them. It can be something as simple as the tone of voice, the size of the person, a beard, a baseball hat – those are all things that can trigger an uncertain response. This dance may continue for awhile so be patient.

The best thing to do is to be less confrontational when approaching, don’t have eye contact, and give the dog a chance to approach you. Basic obedience training can help because it not only builds confidence in the dog but will help the dog respect and trust you.

Give your new dog a chance to settle into the home environment and then get them into training and socialization. Patience is the best reward!

Here’s some other insight into the benefit of early socialization