Possessive Dog Behavior

Dogs are often possessive of toys, treats, or food.  That’s not to say they should be allowed to continue this behavior especially if their attitude shifts to aggression.  Yes, the slightest snarl or low growl if you reach for their toys or food is an aggressive behavior.     It’s not “ok, because that’s what dogs do!”

What about when they are possessive of you?  If you have more than one dog, you may have experienced a behavior that resembles possessiveness.  The object of their desire – you.  Unfortunately, they are blocked or being body slammed by the other four-legged family member who also wants you!

It is up to you to take charge and to not encourage their need to be your favorite at that moment.  It’s similar to when siblings argue and the parent tells the kids, “go to your rooms and come out when you can get along.”  Dogs won’t get that; however, you can give neither affection until they are calm and cooperative.

Some dogs will turn on the other dog and a scuffle will ensue all because one dog wanted to get your affection before the other.  We are flattered and find their attention endearing when really it is the response of an anxious dog.  It is almost impossible to not at some point in time reward this behavior; however, you can give affection to both dogs as soon as they realize that neither are getting your attention when they are attempting to one-up each other.

As I walk in the door after a day of training and I smell like numerous dogs, I know I’ve heard my dogs say – “She’s mine! She’s mine! She’ll pet me first and besides I’m bigger than you!”  I do my best to avoid rewarding this behavior and so should you.  They’ll still love you. . .I promise.