My Dog Hates Me!

First off, I don’t think dogs are capable of the type of bitter emotion that is summed up in the word “hate.”  So, if you come home to a mess or something that appears to be your dog expressing his dislike for you, I suggest you look a little deeper.

From what we know currently about dog psychology, they aren’t capable of spite.  Pooping on the couch or on your bed during a time of transition or training may certainly feel spiteful.  I know what you’re thinking. . .”they know what they did!  You should have seen how they cowered when I walked in.”

They will have a “look” because one thing they do know is that when you come home and there is poop where it shouldn’t be or something destroyed , you are furious.  I’d cower too!  What to do about it?  Nothing, nada, zip, zero, zilch.  If you aren’t able to catch them in the moment they (insert whatever the behavior is), it is best not to bring a lot of focus to it.

Your dog may be feeling a bit territorial, needing exercise or a “job,” or there may be some other changes that are affecting them so they respond in a way that is demonstrative like pooping inside or chewing something.  Trust me, they don’t hate you.   If the behavior is consistent, something more is going on that is worth your attention and perhaps a consultation with a dog behaviorist.

Dogs react to changes in their life just as we do.  They just do it differently!